Social skilling is important in any family and
fws
children's villages are families which foster a philosophy of working
together. While it is important that children build self-reliance, the
ability to work effectively as a team and rely on one another is an
integral part of living in any developing country but also of living in
a large group (yep, a children's village, say!).
fws also recognises that some Kesho Leo kids will lose each other to
HIV-AIDS. We believe it’s essential to provide appropriate trauma
counselling and support to deal with such experiences.
A weekly group
discussion covering topics such as managing emotions, working with our
individual strengths and weaknesses, boosting self-esteem and
negotiating fairly will be incorporated into the children's learning
program. A member of the fws
team with qualifications and experience in this area will initiate this
"social skills" program and train local teachers to see it through.
Recognising that much of a child's social learning occurs incidentally, fws
feels the need to have all those working with Kesho kids – on-site
volunteers and local staff members (teachers, carers, cooks, etc) –
attend monthly discussions to reaffirm the importance of all they've
learnt about early childhood development, behaviour management and
positive reinforcement. This ensures these important techniques and
codes of conduct remain, at all times, foremost in the minds of those
who are caring for Kesho kids.
Finally, given that the population of most developing countries place a great deal of importance on community,
fws
not only teaches its kids about the issues affecting neighbours, but
encourages them to visit elderly or ill neighbours, to partake in local
sporting activities and to celebrate national and cultural heritage
days with their community.
We also plan to run leadership classes for our neighbours so that
they may further address the concerns of their
local communities.